Unfaithfulness slows a man down; it is like a thick curtain that separates him from actualizing the persona he is designed to be. Unfaithfulness encourages premature growth and celebrates cancerous characters with ambitious hope that builds narcissistic tendencies.

You might not see yourself as such because they told you that you can't speak good English, looked down on, or treated like a piece of trash, especially with the phrase, "Oh, sorry, you have no Canadian experience." The list goes on and on.

Like crude oil, you are a precious gem; you have potential, but that potential will never be utilized or actualized if you don't get purified, distilled, treated, tested etc.

Living a simple and quiet life isn’t comfortable. You choose to opt into perseverance and discomfort for the greater good.

You have to let go of many things holding you back, polluting your mind, clouding your judgement and hindering you from becoming the man God has designed you to be.

You lose what doesn’t matter.

A purposeless life is dishonouring to God. You atrophy and become who you shouldn't be. You become self-absorbed with everything that isn't setting you up for eternity. 

Some people think their 9-5 work and academics are their purpose. They forget that life continues after they get that promotion and certification. God is more focused on who you become than what you attain.