Regardless of whoever you are or whatever you are, you need help. You want it now like never before. The more you ask for help, the more it seems to run away from you.

Sometimes, you question yourself, doubt yourself and even feel like giving up because you aren’t seeing any need to ask for help in the future.

I feel like asking for help can position you to be humble, which doesn't come easily. Yet after laying away pride, you still don’t get what you are requesting.

Wait a minute, is it June already? "Oh no, I must be dreaming." What have I achieved this year? It's just six months to go, and I still haven't achieved this and that.

Does that sound like you?

The year didn't just fly without your knowledge. You knew when January passed, I saw you celebrate February, you sent me a happy new month in March, I noticed your post in April about that birthday cake, and oh, just last month, you were hanging out with your pals. I have a picture.

Here are three secrets I have used to get myself to achieve a lot within 6months of the year, and I have the next six months to smash without remorse. (Nah, not that movie)

I get messages from people telling me how nice and patient I am, and they seem to wonder where I get my energy or inspiration from to stay authentic. Of course, there are days I struggle. Sometimes, I want to activate “operation mean mode” but to what end? I ask myself.

The truth is I am deeply rooted in my Christian faith which compass my actions, thoughts, behaviour. Here are three insights I want you to have for you to stay authentic in a crazy world. 

You might say your friend(s) is jealous of your business, but how about it is something else that they don't know how to engage with it. (Ever thought about that?)

They might not be your ideal customer, or they have no idea how to support you. 

You will agree with me that you also have friends who you don't get to support their business, not because you don't like them but because it's not just your cup of tea. 

Side note: I urge you to show interest and ask them questions. You don't want to be like Susan.